Rella (original poster member #21136) posted at 12:34 AM on Wednesday, February 11th, 2026
Since my first husband's infidelity, I had latched onto a narcissist. Was not good. I essentially fired him, kicked him out and never looked back. I learned to look out for myself. Update 9 years later, I remarried a most wonderful guy 9 years ago. A loving, caring and so devoted to family guy, both his kids and mine! Never give up hope to find that special partner. This site gave me the inspiration to continue on, and so should you all! ❤️ to you all!
Eleven years later, I never could have imagined how much happier my life has turned out!
Rella (original poster member #21136) posted at 1:00 AM on Wednesday, February 11th, 2026
Sometimes our lessons are learned layer on. It doesn't erase the hurt that we feel, but we trudge on, as did I. Testing the waters and deciding what works for us. My loving spouse is also a victim of infidelity, he went through a tougher time than I did. We have been married almost 10 years now, and I have not once doubted our commitment to each other. I just wished that I hadn't gone through the pain of my first marriage. I was young,and was loving that someone wanted to marry me. Years later, I realized my mistake though it did produce 3 wonderful daughters! My husband treats them as his own, as do I for his children. We are both grandparents now, loving and supporting them all. Wishing all out there the same peace! ♥️
Eleven years later, I never could have imagined how much happier my life has turned out!
